Proverbs 28:23

The book of Proverbs gives us insights into so many different areas of life. The book gives us instruction on how to live our lives for God. Here is a proverb that gives us insight about speaking truth to others:

Proverbs 28:23 (ESV)

Whoever rebukes a man will afterward find more favor

than he who flatters with his tongue.

Perhaps one of the hardest things to do in regard to relationships with others is to "correct" them; especially if the "them" is a friend, or a family member.   We typically go out of our way to avoid dealing directly with others.   We tend to want to find a "better" time to deal with a problem with others.   When we see them make missteps we want "time" to heal the problem.  We want to wait to see if they get over it.   Or, as the proverb seems to elude to, we use "flattering" words, rather than righteous truth.  We "package" or "couch" the corrective words they can't find the nutrition in our words for all the honey.   People really want truth.  As our we read in Scripture, "The Truth sets you free."   When we are less than truthful to others (to protect ourselves?) we hurt them and damage the relationship even more.   Solomon may have said it better in Proverbs 27:5, where he states, "Open rebuke is better than secret love."   Go out and love someone today by being truthful and forthright.  Pual said it this way:

Galatians 6:1-2 (ESV)

1 Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted. 2 Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.